SO. So. I have basically become dual gender bros with my boyfriend’s roommate, who is in love with one of my roommates, who happens to be dating some douche of a guy who I don’t like.
And I offered to make the new bro of mine dinner after a seven hour drive, but totally made sure my roommate was okay with him being over despite weird squishy feelings.
Now she says she’s having a panic attack. After turning down the offer to go with her boyfriend for pho. Like… she knew the situation and put herself in it and now is having a panic attack because of it.
And I love both of these people. Really. But come on….
So the new bro dude is sitting in the apartment BUILDING’s common area because she asked him to leave when he was quietly sitting in our living room as I cooked and she was in her room unpacking.
When she basically should be getting pho with her boyfriend.
And I don’t know what to do because on one hand, I want this to be a safe place for her, and on the other, she knew what was going to happen and put herself in this situation and I find that ridiculous.